Personal Touches we Love Seeing at Weddings
Because the best weddings are the ones that feel like you.
Trends come and go, but there’s one thing that never goes out of style: personality.
At M.Ingle Events, we’ve planned and styled everything from grand celebrations to intimate elopements — and the moments that stay with guests (and us!) are always the ones that feel personal. Whether it’s a subtle nod to your heritage, a favourite recipe from nan, or a cheeky inside joke, weaving in thoughtful, meaningful touches is what transforms a beautiful wedding into a truly unforgettable one.
Here are a few of our all-time favourite personal touches that make us swoon every time.
1. Custom Vows That Hit You Right in the Heart
There’s something magical about hearing a couple speak their own words to each other — especially when those words are funny, honest, and straight from the soul. Whether they’re tearjerkers or full of belly laughs, personalised vows add emotional depth that standard scripts just can’t match.
Tip: Nervous? Write them in advance, print them on beautiful paper or in vow booklets — they’ll become a keepsake you’ll treasure forever.
2. Signature Cocktails Inspired by the Couple
We love seeing a custom drinks menu featuring “his,” “hers,” or “theirs” cocktails that reflect the couple’s go-to orders or travel memories. Espresso martinis named after the proposal location? A G&T twist in honour of your first date? Yes, please.
It’s a fun, lighthearted touch that gives guests a little taste of your story — literally.
3. Photos That Go Beyond the Family Album
From polaroid guest books to photo displays that span childhood to now, incorporating your history through imagery adds so much warmth to a space. We’ve seen everything from framed family wedding photos to quirky couple selfies hung on escort card walls — and every version is charming.
4. Cultural Traditions and Family Moments
Including a meaningful cultural element — whether it’s a tea ceremony, haka, handfasting, or traditional blessing — not only honours your heritage, but creates a powerful moment of connection for everyone present.
Same goes for sentimental nods to lost loved ones, such as:
A reserved seat with a photo
A small token sewn into your dress or suit
Lighting a candle in their honour
These moments are always deeply moving and remind everyone that weddings are not just about beginnings, but about legacy and love.
5. Unexpected Entertainment or Surprises
From choreographed dances to surprise live music performances or a heartfelt thank you speech to your guests — those “didn’t-see-that-coming” moments are always a hit. They remind your guests that this wedding couldn’t belong to anyone else but you.
Your Wedding, Your Way
At M.Ingle Events, our job is to take your ideas — no matter how big, small, or out-of-the-box — and bring them to life in a way that feels effortlessly “you.” Because personal touches aren’t just about being different — they’re about creating memories that mean something.
Ready to design a day filled with heart, joy, and thoughtful details?
Let’s start planning your dream wedding, your way.